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Birth Trauma – Can it be fixed?

January 17, 2017

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The word “traumatised” has become like the word “starving” and the word “depressed”.  It has been watered down,  from something quite serious and potentially life threatening, to something we flippantly say when chatting about our experiences.  We might say “I am absolutely starving” instead of “I’m famished”.  We might say “I was so depressed” because our Christmas pressie turned out not to be the long awaited diamond ring.  And we might say “it was traumatic” when we mean “it was horrible”.  But we all know that to actually be starving means something very different.  And we might or might not know that to actually be depressed is a miserable state of being, a condition, not a fleeting  emotion.

So what about trauma?  If something was really scary and upsetting and horrible, were we traumatised?  Well, to a psychologist, trauma is as much about the aftermath of an experience, as it…

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Meerkats and Perinatal Mental Health: What is the one thing I do when meeting some-one who is depressed or anxious?

November 9, 2016

It’s help them to calm their brain.

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Picture a meerkat, up on the tips of his feet, eyes and ears peeled for danger. Red Alert. The meerkat is on patrol for the night. His brain and nervous system are hypervigilant, sensitive to all dangers, out to protect his clan.

Now picture the other miakats (that’s how I like to spell it!). They are asleep. They are warm and curled up, maybe cuddling up to a fellow miakat. They feel safe. They feel relaxed. They are resting and reenergising for the next round of activity.

They swap. Once the patrol miakat has done his patrol, he can rest, while some-one else takes over patrol duty.

The problem with anxiety and depression, is that the brain’s alert/danger system is stuck to “on”, leading to exhaustion. This alert/danger system shows itself in the inability to sleep well, the constant worrying about whether you are good enough, or whether your baby is healthy enough, or whether other people are talking about you, constant restlessness mixed with tiredness, irritability, and so on.

So, the first thing I do when I meet some-one who is depressed or anxious, is help their brain to switch from the alert/danger system, into the calm/relaxed system. I relax them in session, and then I give them a relaxation MP3 to listen to every evening as they go to bed. It’s like a sleeping tablet that has no side effects. It’s like a respite for the brain, from that constant struggle. It’s the start of things getting better for them.

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Mia Scotland

Clinical Psychologist

http://www.yourbirthright.co.uk.

Have you written a postnatal care plan yet?

October 10, 2016

You wrote a birth plan, because birth is a big deal. But did you write a postnatal care plan? After your baby is born, your whole body and mind are in transition. Transition can be so tough, it’s even got a psychiatric label attached to it (Adjustment Disorder). Your body is physically transitioning in crazy, magical ways, and you are mentally transforming to get used to being instantly interrupt-able, having strange sleep patterns, putting yourself second, and grieving your lost carefree past. You are learning to know and love your baby. (Honeymoons were designed to help you love your new partner. Babymoons should also be designed to help you love your baby). Your brain is processing the birth. The list goes on and on and on and on. So, don’t just go home and hope for the best. Here is an example of what your postnatal care plan might look like:

“My Postnatal Care Plan

I have written a postnatal care plan because I very much want to enjoy my first few weeks getting to know my baby. I am aware that I have a tendency to do too much, and to feel guilty when I’m not getting stuff done. I want to ensure that this doesn’t happen following the birth of my baby, and so I am planning how to take care of myself in the first two precious weeks with my baby.

Generally, I wish to spend time skin to skin with my baby, I wish to establish breastfeeding, and I would like my husband to be an integral part of this with us.

Immediately upon coming home:

My husband would like to carry me and our baby over the threshold.

I would like a warm bath with rejuvenating bath salts, and then I would like to get into fresh (new) pyjamas and into our king size bed with new fresh sheets, and my baby.

I would like the lights kept low, my phone and my remote control next to me.

I would like to eat a huge, warm, filling meal of cottage pie and peas, washed down with camomile tea and a glass of champagne.

I would like my husband to join us as much as possible in bed.

For the first two weeks after coming home:

I would like visitors to stay away for at least 12 hours, apart from the midwife and my lactation consultant, who I have pre-arranged support with.

In the first three days, I would like very close members of my family only, to visit.

I do not want my baby to be held by anybody else in the first three days, other than her father.

We have arranged for a food delivery of fresh fruit, salads, sandwiches, chocolates and champagne. There are plenty of ready cooked meals in the freezer too.

I have arranged for a cleaner to come in every other day to tidy and clean the house, as per my husband’s requests (she will not clean our bedroom).

I have specific herbal/homeopathic remedies that I will be taking each day.

After the first three days, I have arranged for a postnatal doula to come in and provide emotional and practical support every three days.

My husband will help to ensure that I get plenty of rest, by regularly encouraging me to go to bed, and ensuring that the household and visitors are taken care of.

My husband will take a few hours out of the house each day, to do something to help him to feel refreshed also.

According to how I feel, I plan to spend most of the first two weeks in and out of bed. I might take a walk or potter around the house if I feel restless, but if not, I will stay in bed to recover and adjust, both physically and mentally, and to help me to fall in love with my baby and establish breastfeeding.”

What do you think? If you are thinking “that’s a bit overindulgent” then you are totally not getting how important this time is. If you are thinking “it’s only relevant to rich people” then drop the champagne and the au-pair, but stick with bed and help from family. If you’re thinking “what if I’m a single mum” then think even harder about your postnatal care plan, because support matters, whether its from a husband, a mother, the NHS, a best friend or social services.

It’s my prediction that postnatal care plans will become more and more common. If you’ve ever used one, I’d love to hear from you.

Mia Scotland

Perinatal Clinical Psychologist

http://www.yourbirthright.co.uk

If you don’t pee in front of your partner, think twice about having him at the birth of your baby.

July 21, 2016

 

We are on a girlie week-end, climbing hills in the Derbyshire dales, and staying in a bed and breakfast. We are all escaping motherhood for a day or two. Over breakfast one morning, a conversation begins about peeing in the company of our husbands. I am surprised to hear a few women say they have never had a pee with their husband in the room. It turns out they have never broken wind in front of him either. I kind of think this is an awesome feat of bodily control that I wouldn’t be able to achieve!  It reminded me of how different we all are.

But it got me thinking, that if you feel embarrassed to go to the loo with your partner in the room, what must it be like to try to have a baby with him in the room? Having a baby is not particularly alluring, it involve body parts, it involves smells and noises, it is not “lady like” particularly, or “sexy”.

I have been thinking these things for a while, but not had the courage to write them down. There is something, even in our modern day liberated lives, that is not okay about writing about women’s bodies as functional rather than objects of desire. So, as you read this, notice any discomfort you might feel, and ask yourself “why is it not okay to read about my body in this way?”

Dbirth stool labouro you pee in front of your husband? Do you change your sanitary wear in front of him? Do you break wind in his presence? Do you orgasm freely and loudly with him? If so, birthing in front of him might be easier. Because birthing is about your body parts, and it is about things coming out of your body, and it is about letting your body be released from your mental inhibitions.

To orgasm freely, we need to feel uninhibited. We need to feel that we are not being judged or watched, to not feel self-conscious. Birth is the same. I’m not talking about orgasmic, hippy dippy births (yes, orgasmic births actually exist). I’m talking about all births without drugs, or knives. Because your body needs the hormone “oxytocin” to birth without a drug or a knife, and oxytocin disappears if we feel judged, self-conscious or worried.

So, it stands to reason that if you get very self-conscious at the thought of your partner seeing you being anything other than sexy and alluring, you might struggle with his presence at the birth. You might not want him to see you grunting or sweating. You might not want him to see you breaking wind, weeing, or even letting out a little poo. Having some-one in the room, who makes you feel anxious or inhibited is not good for birth. So think very carefully about your partner’s presence, and if you’re not sure, then  my advice is to address it, discuss it, think about it, as part of your birth preparation. Sophie Fletcher, in her book  Mindful Hypnobirthing, is one of the few birthing books to even talk about the fact that he doesn’t have to be there. It is a choice. If you know that you do want him there, prepare for that. The Mindful Mamma classes spend a lot of time of partners’ role. Learn how he can help you to elicit and release your oxytocin via his connection and love. Mark Harris talks about this in his book “Men, Love and Birth”. Ina May Gaskin maintains that the kissing that got baby in there, can get baby out too 🙂 Michel Odent argues that men’s presence in the birthing room might account for the rise in intervention. There’s no right and wrong. As I said at the beginning, we are all so different. But if you’re preparing for your birth, don’t prepare without addressing what it’ll be like for you to have him there, and what role he is going to play.

Mia Scotland

Birth Doula and Mindful Mamma hypnobirthing practitioner

http://www.yourbirthright.co.uk

What actually happens during a therapy session?

May 12, 2016

MiaI’m excited about this referral because the money has been arranged by a health insurance company, so neither of us need worry about money. They have released money for 6 therapy session. She enters my room. I have no idea what I am going to hear, or what I am going to do. I begin in the same way that I always begin. I hear her story and watch her and help her feel comfortable in my presence. She is wringing her hands. She sits bolt upright. She is tense. I digest her story, process it, try to make sense of it, quickly enough to be able to feed back in that one session what I think might help her. As I listen, I mentally pick out her strengths, they will come in handy at some point (a technique from positive psychology and hypnosis). I teach her some calming and relaxation techniques, after helping her to understand why this is so important to do (when we are stressed, our thinking changes – it becomes narrower, more judgmental, more skewed, less rational, and things just seem much worse than they are. This is a change that is real, and has been demonstrated on brain scans). We record a relaxation session on her phone, tailored just for her. She told me she never relaxes, but in that five minutes, she did. She takes away the recording to listen to regularly (this activates the parasympathetic nervous system, triggering a calming response, helping her to think more clearly and calmly).

She comes in again the following week. She tells me that she has a major challenge on that week-end, so can we please help her cope with that. We do some cognitive work (challenging her negative beliefs about the stressful situation). We do some reframing (helping her to think of it differently). We do some behavioural strategy work (helping her to develop alternatives) and then we do some imaginary rehearsal (or rather, hypnosis, to get her to imagine herself actually acting out the coping behaviours. The brain needs to visualise to realise. Just talking isn’t enough).

We do some role play to cement the new cognitions (I give voice to the scary thoughts, and she answers them with the new ways of thinking). This bit is quite fun, and it gives me a really good idea of whether the work we have done so far has been understood by her. It has.

I then finish off the session with an NLP/hypnotic technique (neuro-linguistic programming technique) to cement at a deep level, the new behaviours. It’s called the Swish pattern technique, and I use it quite a lot. I can see in her face that it has worked supremely well (because she looks confused as she tries to bring up the old image of her previously anxious self. Her brain can no longer access it).

The next session, she comes in smiling. She relaxes onto my sofa. She tells me she is feeling good. She tells me she had a good week-end. It all went fine. It’s not that she coped with, or managed her anxiety, it’s that it wasn’t there in the first place. She tells me that it just didn’t really figure in any way. She doesn’t really know how it changed. I tell her that we had “reset the system” back to her old, relaxed happy self (that was the strengths that I had picked up on in the first session) but I don’t think she understands. This happens a lot. People get better, but they don’t know why or how. I do, but I don’t bother trying to explain it, as that would somehow take the magic out of it.

So, there’s no need to arrange a further session. She will call me if she gets any symptoms back again, and we will hypnotically release the past traumas that trigger her anxiety (using the Rewind technique). But we won’t do that now, because she chooses to just enjoy life and get on with it again (I did give her the choice).

So, the planned 6 sessions became 3. This happens all the time. Because when I introduced hypnosis and NLP into my cognitive behavioural model of working, change began to happen super-fast. And super easily. The adage “no pain no gain” is simply not true.  This super speed may not be good for my income ( I lost out on three sessions worth of pay), but it’s great for my work satisfaction.

Mia Scotland, Clinical Psychologist

www.miasscotland.co.uk 

 

“I’m scared I’m going to harm my baby…”

April 28, 2016

mia brochure photoWhat do you say when you hear the words “I’m terrified that I’m going to harm my baby”

Those words are ones that would be hard to say if you’re a mother. But if you’re a professional, be it a midwife, a health visitor, a doula or a counsellor, they can be hard to hear too. Those words represent an ultimate taboo.  A mother wanting to harm her own baby…..

But just wait a minute. If you are very astute, you will have spotted my deliberate error there. Can you see it? They are not the same thing. “I’m terrified I’m going to harm my baby” is not the same as “I want to harm my baby”.

If you hear a mother say “I’m terrified I’m going to harm my baby” the chances are she is suffering from an anxiety disorder, and she is not a danger to her baby. She is about as dangerous as some-one with fear of heights, who stands near(ish) a cliff and says “I’m terrified I’m going to jump off”.  You wouldn’t call the crisis team in this instance would you? Instead, you might say “no you’re not, you’re just scared”. It’s the same with mothers. If a mother is anxious (and especially if she is suffering from perinatal or maternal Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) then she might talk about suffocating her baby, but she can be reassured that she isn’t mad or bad, she is scared.  And of course, if you make the mistake of reacting like she is mad or bad, and call the crisis team, you certainly aren’t going to ease her anxiety!

To find out more about perinatal mental health problems, come to my workshop for birthing professionals on Friday 10th June 2016. For details, click here 

Mia Scotland, Author of “Why Perinatal Depression Matters” and Perinatal Clinical Psychologist.

My All Time Top 5 Tips for Birth Preparation

April 13, 2016

mia brochure photoAfter over 10 years of teaching birth preparation classes, and having taught over 1000 couples, here are my definitive five top birth preparation tips:

1. Get the birth companion prepared too. As a mother, you have the benefit of birth hormones to help you go into the zone, and to help you forget the pain. But your partner doesn’t have this lovely little tool kit for birthing. Because he wasn’t designed to birth a baby. There is a teeny weeny chance that he might get a rush of adrenalin, and try to help with “action man” bravery, when what you need is stillness and calm. If he is going to be there, he needs to prepare for this.

2. Release your fears and negative assumptions about birth. Our society has soaked you in a culture of presuming that birth is a horrific ordeal. You need to let that conditioning go, so that it doesn’t affect you too much on the day. This is true for a zillions of different reasons that science has demonstrated, but that I haven’t got the space to go into right now. One little example is that if we expect pain, our brain actually creates pain. Another is that if you are scared, your labour lasts longer.

3. Take your environment very very seriously indeed. I cannot sleep in a busy security queue at an airport. I can sleep very quickly, tucked up in my own bed at night. Birth follows the same principles (there are so many ways in which birth is similar to sleep – to0 many to go into now). Prioritise your birthing environment to create a spa like feel in the very special room that you are going to meet your baby in.

4. Condition your body to be able to respond with an automatic relaxation response to specific triggers. In NLP, this is called anchoring. In psychology, it is called conditioning. It is the basic technique that all good advertising is based on, and it works. It is so easy, but so effective. Hypnotic relaxation PM3s are perfect for this. You can also anchor yourself to a smell. Or a touch. You do the anchoring in your pregnancy, and then on the day, you generate the trigger, and your body will respond automatically.

5. Know your rights. So many second time mums say “I didn’t realise I had a choice” or “I didn’t know what they were doing” or “I know I don’t want to do that this time”. You know what? The NHS is your servant. It is there to support you, offer you advice, and listen to what your preferences are. They literally can’t touch you without your consent. You have the power to always say “not yet thank-you, I want to have a think about it first”.  Whether it is a blood test, an induction, a sweep, having your waters broken, seeing a doctor instead of a midwife, you choose. Birth preparation is about empowering yourself to enable the midwives to help you to have your choices and needs met.

These are the five things that we have prioritised in our  Mindful Mamma hypnobirthing class. It is one day, but it is packed full of all the above. There is the wonderful Mindful Hypnobirthing book which you receive when you book your place. There are 9 MP3s to help you release your fear, build a positive mindset, and anchor relaxation. There is exclusive access to a website with handouts, infographics and bonus MP3s. I run the class near Nottingham and Leicester, in a lovely venue in Melton Mowbray. There some of the testimonials and birth stories from people who have done my class here. Enjoy 🙂

Mia Scotland

Clinical Psychologist, Hypnobirthing antenatal teacher, Birth doula

www.yourbirthright.co.uk 

 

Why Hasn’t Birth ‘Debrief’ Worked Very Well? 

March 15, 2016

Birthing Awareness

Maybe you think it has?

Every since I trained as a midwife in 1994 one form or another of ‘birth debrief’ has taken place in the UK.

Recent research suggests that what we have been doing all these years hasn’t worked very well at all.

The ‘confidential inquiry into maternal death’ report (2015) is very clear that postnatal mental health issues are becoming a leading cause of death following child birth.

What can be done?

The Maternity Review (2016) has pointed towards increased investment in our NHS postnatal service, a call to action which is long overdue.

Mia Scotland (clinical psychologist, doula, hypno birther and author) and I are choosing to make a contribution in this area.

On Thursday 9 June 2016 we are running a co-led workshop exploring this very important subject.

Details regarding what we are going to cover will follow, but we will certainly be taking about…

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Pass The Bomb: who is going to contain your anxiety when you are with your newborn baby?

January 26, 2016

iStock_000064471321_SmallNew parents are anxious. And according to research, they are getting more and more anxious. I often hear cases of mums unable to sleep because they are terrified. Terrifed that their babies aren’t breathing. Terrified that the room is too hot. Terrified that baby hasn’t fed enough. Terrified that they will damage their baby. Dads are getting postnatal depression too, at rates almost as high as for women. They are scared too. I want to talk about a psychological piece of gold, that can ease anxiety, but that new parents are lacking in our modern lives.

Containment is a psychology term that basically means; the process of stopping anxiety from bouncing around the room.  Containing situations and emotions is something that all good parents do (and therapists too). It’s not easy to explain, but I’ll give you an example of when containment is NOT happening. My son may come to me in a flap because his friends have said to him (in a flap) that he has to start job hunting now, because a teacher said to his friends (in a flap) that jobs are very competitive and they need to take this seriously and start job hunting now. I can continue the flapping by saying “what? Are you serious? Now? That’s crazy. Can it really be that bad? Oh my goodness, I don’t know what we are supposed to do with that information, it’s a crazy world out there”. And in my exasperation, I tell my friends, who are also parents, and pass the flapping on. The anxiety continues down the line, because no one has contained it.

Or, as a parent, I can provide some containment. In doing so, the anxiety disperses. I do this by “containing” my own feelings of exasperation or anxiety, and I can calmly and warmly say “honey, that sounds very pressurising, I can understand that you’re worried (empathy). But you know what? It’s going to be fine, because you have at least a year before you need a job, you’ve already got a great CV, and I’m going to help you get yourself sorted. Shall we take a look this week-end?”  He relaxes, and the “containment” goes back down the line, because he tells his mates “actually, we do have a year, and we’ve got our CVs done already, and I’m not worried about it” and so on. Containment kills anxiety.

I was watching an episode of the British Sitcom “On the Buses” recently. It’s an amazing watch, because it is a rare glimpse into social history. It is set in working class London, in the early 1970s. It is clear, watching this, that it was normal to go through your first pregnancy, birth and babyhood, whilst still living with your parents. This was common before the 1970s, because newly weds couldn’t afford their own house. In one particular episode, a pregnant woman and her mother were chatting about the baby in a tiny kitchen, which serves as a wash room and a living room all in one. The pregnant woman was expressing anxieties about becoming a mum. The mother’s mother responded with something along the lines of “I’ll be ‘ere anyways, so you ain’t got narfin’ ta worry abart” (I made that bit up, I can’t remember exactly what she said). She was replying with reassurances, in a tone that kind of said “I totally get why you’re anxious, because I was” (empathy) and added “but really, it is so easy to look after a new baby, that you have nothing to worry about”. She was nonchalant, but empathic too, and containing.

Nowadays, new parents go home to their own house when they have their baby. And they don’t really want the mother in law around too much. And they don’t want her advice, because advice has changed so much. So they go home and do it themselves. Here-in lies the danger: What they don’t realise is, they have no-one to contain the anxiety. This is critical, but overlooked. Hazel Douglas defines containment as being “when one person receives and understands the emotional communication of another without being overwhelmed by it, processes it and then communicates understanding and recognition back to the other person. This process can restore the capacity to think in the other person.” Thus, it is a powerful tool for helping the person become unstuck from paralysing anxiety, to help them become functional again, to “think” again. Because, you know what? Working out what to do when a baby cries, learning how to pick up a baby, rock a baby, feed a baby, change a baby, keep it alive, is quite a big task when you are new to it.

And when there is no-one around to contain the anxiety in the middle of the night, it all gets a lot more stressful. And if you are scared and anxious, you are passing that on to your baby. Your baby picks up on “something is the matter”. So your baby is more likely to cry. So it gets worse. What you need, is someone to come in and contain the situation. Some-one who has done it before, who can calmly, empathically and warmly turn the situation around with one look and one smile. She sprinkles magic fairy dust into the room, just like a real life fairy godmother. Who is going to do that for you? Traditionally, it would have been mothers, sisters, midwives or aunties.

Nowadays, fathers are courageously trying to fill this gap. They are mucking in with the night time nappy changes and the job of caring for the baby. That, in itself, is a big job if you’ve never done it before. But dads, you have an extra job. You are also there to support the mother, so that when she is crying on day three of the baby blues, you can hold her in your arms and tell her that you love her. All very well, but can you tell her, knowingly, that it’ll be okay? Can you tell her, from experience, that it’ll pass? Can you tell her, and feel, that you are calm and strong and capable of handling all of this? Can you contain the situation?

Probably not. Because you have never done this before, either. You are tired from the birth too. You are on unknown, scary territory. You haven’t got the benefit of wisdom and experience on your side. You need some-one to come in and say to you “it’ll be okay, hold her in your arms, tell her you love her, let her cry all over you, you are doing an amazing job by just being there for her”. Dad needs containment too, so that he can be there for the mother. The mother needs containment so that she can be there for the baby.

So, how can you build in the psychological gold nugget that is “containment” into your postnatal birth plan? Well, you haven’t got time to wait for the NHS to provide it in the form of regular midwife visits postnatally with continuity of care, so you need to do it yourself. Think about which members of your family help you feel safe, nurtured, and cared for. Bring them in to help. Ask them to move in! If no-one is available, think about paying for this kind of help. Lactation consultants, postnatal doulas, night nurses, private midwives, all do a fantastic job. Postnatal doulas are not expensive. They are trained in all aspects of new parenthood, and they are exceptional at taking care of your needs so that you can take care of your baby. This will take the pressure off the father too, so that he can remain strong, and enjoy the process.

Think twice before you spend your money on a travel system, or on pretty wall paper with matching bedding. Think about your emotional wellbeing before your physical wellbeing, and you, your partner and your baby can thrive as early as possible in your incredible journey as that most precious thing in the world: creating your very own family.

mia brochure photoMia Scotland is a Clinical Psychologist and author specialising in the Perinatal Period. See her website at www.yourbirthright.co.uk or buy her book, Why Perinatal Depression Matters from Pinter and Martin.

Lambs, mothers and keeping them together

January 18, 2016

mia-websitetinylphotoMy friend’s daughter announced last year that she wasn’t going to eat lamb anymore because it seems cruel to eat those cute things bouncing about in fields. I responded in a very over excited way, that lamb is the least cruel farm animal product you can eat. And I really mean this, and I want the whole world to know about it. The reason is this: Lamb is the only farm animal that is not repeatedly removed from its mother, and that is truly free range. Keeping mothers and babies together is a passionate part of what I do, and that passion extends to what I eat (I’m so sorry, if you are a vegetarian reading this, it might seem very odd to you, that I would eat meat at all). We have been separating mothers from their newborn babies for many decades, and part of my work is to help mums have skin to skin contact immediately after birth. Thanks to the hormones running strong in the mother, this is almost always a joy. I have recently seen numerous campaign videos suggesting that when milking cows are separated from their calves soon after birth, they show signs of distress. It is upsetting to watch. The dairy industry separates mothers and calves all the time. The chicken industry separates mothers and chicks, even before hatching. When we tried to breed ducks in our garden, I wanted them so much to hatch under their mummies tummies (not a lamp), and to follow their mums around frantically, hopping over tufts of grass and large stones (not stay chirping in a cardboard box). It was a delight to see. Lambs are the only farm animals that are routinely able to frolic around in open fields, with their mummies, eating nature’s grass, happy as a pig in muck (see what I did there?).  That’s a delight to see too. You can tell that I am a little “fluffy” about this whole issue, not unlike my friend’s daughter who declined any lamb product as a result of her heart strings being twanged by the site of frolicking lambs. I have a friend who is a sheep farmer, and when I was waffling on about this one day (over one glass too many of the vino), he seemed very uninterested in what I had to say. And yet, sheep farmers, this is a marketing gold mine! You should milk this little gem for all you’ve got (see what I did there too?). It is arguably less cruel to eat lamb, than it is to drink a glass of milk. Lamb is increasingly the more expensive meat on our shelves, and there’s a reason for that. Lamb equals free range farming, as nature intended, with animal welfare top of the list. So, if you insist on eating meat, and you want to eat with animal welfare in mind, choose lamb.